According to Dr. David Mace,
"Poor communication is the main problem in 86% of all troubled
marriages." A happy and healthy home is one of the best places on earth,
while an unhappy and unhealthy home is one of the most miserable places.
Someone rightly said “Where purpose is not known abuse is inevitable…” When a
person does not understand the purpose of a thing, they almost always abuse
that thing and marriage is no different. An all-wise God who created order out
of chaos, handcrafted man and woman in His own image, and then instituted and
ordained marriage must have had a purpose in doing so. What then, one must ask,
was God’s purpose in creating marriage? Indisputably … the most fitting answer will
be found in harmony with the will of God as it is revealed for us in His Word. In
the next few weeks we are going to turn to His Word in order to find the divine
purpose of God’s institution of Marriage… in fact this series is an examination
of all our relationships.
There are those who call the church
the body of Christ, and there are those who call the church the bride of
Christ. Some modern teachers have argued over which is correct. They say, “If the church is His body, which is male,
it cannot be His bride, which is female.”
The fact is, in the first marriage
between Adam and Eve, Eve was both Adam’s body and his bride. She was bone of
his bone and flesh of his flesh, yet she was separate from him in form and
inseparably bound to him in spirit. As believers in Jesus, we are inseparably
bound and eternally married to the Lord Jesus Christ in Spirit. Yet, on this
earth, we live out His life in our flesh. We are body and bride simultaneously…
That is why our relationships are so important… important in marriage, in
families, with co-workers, with neighbors, and yes, even in our relationships
with our enemies.
Marriage is “made In Heaven” because
it is God’s idea. He created the idea of relationships. He designed it. He
established it and defined its parameters. Secondly, marriage is “made In
Heaven” because God made Eve and brought her to Adam. Eve was God’s original
idea. Our first parents did not woo, solicit, or choose each other. This was an
arranged marriage, a match literally made in heaven: Eve is the absolute
pinnacle of creation, the crown of Adam, “the glory of the man” (1 Cor. 11:7). How
many of us look at our spouse as God’s crowning achievement in our lives?
You know I love ya.... Don
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